Stitched Wings Outreach

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  • Embracing Your True Worth: A Biblical Perspective

    In our journey through life, we often encounter individuals who struggle to recognize our true worth. When faced with negativity and criticism from those around us, it can be disheartening. However, the Bible provides us with wisdom, encouragement, and perspective on how to navigate these challenging relationships while honoring our identity in Christ.

    First and foremost, we must remember that our value is not defined by the opinions of others. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us that “we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works.” This powerful verse highlights that each one of us is uniquely crafted by God with purpose and intention. When we grasp our identity as beloved children of God, we can withstand the storms of criticism and negativity from those around us.

    When others try to undermine your worth or tear down your image, it’s essential to respond with grace. Romans 12:17-18 encourages us not to repay evil for evil but to live at peace with everyone. This means we can choose to respond to negativity with love and understanding, resisting the urge to retaliate. By embodying Christ-like character in our reactions, we not only honor God but also model a better way for those who may be misjudging us.

    In times of doubt and struggle, it’s crucial to seek validation from God rather than from flawed human opinions. Psalm 139:14 assures us, “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” Spend time in prayer and reflection, asking God to affirm your worth and guide you in recognizing your unique gifts and abilities. Surround yourself with Scripture that reinforces your identity in Christ, reminding you that you are cherished and significant.

    While we cannot control how others perceive us, we can seek out relationships with those who uplift and support us. Proverbs 27:17 states, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” It’s vital to cultivate friendships and connections with believers who encourage you and recognize your true worth. These uplifting relationships can serve as a fortress when facing discouragement from others.

    It’s okay to establish boundaries with people who consistently bring negativity into your life. Matthew 10:14 advises us to shake the dust off our feet and move on if a place or person does not welcome us. Protecting your mental and emotional well-being is essential. Setting boundaries allows you to preserve your peace and maintain focus on your path of growth and fulfillment in Christ.

    When faced with individuals who refuse to see your true worth or who try to tear down your image, remember your identity in Christ. Respond to negativity with grace, seek validation from God, build a supportive community, and set healthy boundaries. By following these biblical principles, you will not only affirm your own worth but also shine as a beacon of light in a world that desperately needs to see the value that each person holds as God’s creation. Embrace who you are, and let your worth shine brightly, regardless of how others may perceive you.

  • Embracing Change: Finding God’s Goodness in the Storm

    Life has a way of throwing us curveballs. Over the past few months, I’ve found myself navigating a whirlwind of changes and making decisions that have truly broken my heart. It’s been an emotional journey, filled with uncertainty and doubt. Yet, amidst the storm, I’ve discovered a profound truth: Even in the storm, God is good.

    In the midst of these challenging times, I often felt lost and overwhelmed. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos and lose sight of hope. However, as I continued to persevere through these changes, I began to see glimpses of light. God started revealing the reasons behind the upheaval in my life. It’s astonishing how, even when we can’t see the bigger picture, He is working everything out for our good.

    I want to be honest—I’m not at the end of this storm yet. I know there are still challenging decisions ahead, and the uncertainty can be daunting. However, what I’ve learned through this process is invaluable: When I let go and let God lead, He reveals the path forward. I might not understand everything immediately, but with each step of faith, He shows me that He is right there, guiding me.

    Trusting God in tough times isn’t easy. It requires surrendering our desires and expectations, but the reward is worth it. The more I lean into my faith, the more I recognize His presence in my life. It’s comforting to know that I’m not alone in facing these challenges. God’s grace is sufficient, and His plans for us are good.

    So, as I continue on this journey, I remind myself to hold on to hope. Change can be painful, but it can also lead to growth and deeper understanding. I encourage anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation to trust in the process. Embrace the changes, even when they feel overwhelming. God is good, and He has a purpose for every storm we face.

    Let’s walk this journey together, supporting one another through the ups and downs. Remember, it’s okay not to have all the answers right now. Trust that in time, the pieces will fall into place. Keep the faith and let God show you the beauty that can emerge from the storms of life.

  • The Promise of the Rainbow

    In the midst of turmoil, when the winds howl and the sky darkens, it’s easy to feel lost, to let the storm take hold of your spirit. But in this tempest, remember the truth: there is a greater force at play, one that holds dominion over the storm. God, in His wisdom, guides you through the chaos, reminding you that even the darkest nights yield to dawn.

    The struggle often intensifies just before the resolution arrives. It’s as if the clouds gather their strength, pressing down with relentless weight, urging you to surrender. Yet, in that very moment, when despair threatens to claim victory, hold tight to hope. The rain may fall and the storms may rage, but a rainbow is born of both rain and sunshine—a promise of beauty after the struggle.

    Keep your heart open and your faith unwavering; the light will break through, casting away shadows. You are not alone in this battle. The storm will pass, and in its wake, you will emerge not only intact but transformed, ready to embrace the vibrant colors that life has in store. Just hold on; the rainbow is coming.

  • A NARCISSIST DOESN’T FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU… THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH WHAT YOU HAVE.

    They fall in love with your potential, your energy, your loyalty, your soft heart, your ability to forgive, your achievements, your resources, your light — not because they genuinely value you, but because they believe they’re entitled to it all. They’re not drawn to your soul — they’re drawn to what they can take from it.

    From the very beginning, it’s a performance. They mirror you, study you, become everything you want — only so they can gain access. They will love bomb you, flatter you, praise you endlessly — until you let your guard down. But once they know they’ve secured a spot in your heart, their true self begins to show.

    The attention fades. The affection becomes conditional.

    The warmth you once felt turns cold and confusing.

    Suddenly, you’re walking on eggshells, questioning your worth, blaming yourself for the change you can’t explain.

    What you don’t realize at first is this: the love they gave wasn’t real — it was bait.

    They needed something from you: admiration, control, money, sex, validation, a status boost — and once they got it, they began devaluing you. They don’t fall in love with people — they become obsessed with what you can provide, and once that use fades, so does their interest.

    You were never seen as an equal partner. You were a supply source.

    A trophy. A reflection. A mirror they could shine in — until the cracks began to show.

    And when you finally begin to stand up for yourself — when you ask for accountability, honesty, respect — they will spin it, blame you, call you difficult, sensitive, crazy, or ungrateful. Because for them, your pain is never the problem — your voice is.

    A narcissist doesn’t want love — they want control.

    They don’t want partnership — they want ownership.

    They don’t want to grow with you — they want to drain you.

    And the saddest part? You likely gave them the purest version of yourself.

    But that version wasn’t something they cherished — it was something they consumed.

    So if you’re hurting right now, wondering what went wrong — please understand:

    You did nothing wrong.

    You loved too deeply someone who only knew how to take.

    You gave someone the best parts of you, and they mistook it for weakness.

    But your strength? It’s not in how much you endured.

    It’s in how you finally chose to walk away, reclaim your peace, and love yourself harder than they ever could.

    Their version of love was manipulation.

    Yours was real.

    And that is something they’ll never be capable of — and never forget.

    You didn’t lose them.

    They lost you.

    And that was their biggest mistake.

  • Embracing the Breakthrough: Preparing for What’s Ahead

    In life, we often find ourselves in a waiting period—an in-between space where we long for change but feel stuck. It’s a time filled with uncertainty, yet it’s also an incredible opportunity for personal growth and spiritual transformation.

    The journey toward a breakthrough is not just about eagerly anticipating what’s to come; it’s about what we do while we wait. This is a time to turn inward and become the person we need to be to fully embrace the blessings that lie ahead. It’s an invitation to shed unhelpful habits, relationships, and mindsets that can no longer accompany us on our path.

    Part of this journey involves releasing things and people that cannot move forward with us. It can be challenging to let go of past hurts, toxic relationships, or even comfortable routines that hold us back. However, in order to step into a new season, we must create space for the new. Reflecting on what needs to stay and what should be released is crucial in this transformative process.

    During this waiting period, it’s vital to stay attuned to God’s voice. Engaging regularly with scripture helps ground us and provides clarity. Reading the Bible not only strengthens our faith but also equips us with wisdom to navigate life’s challenges. Each passage can offer invaluable insight when we find ourselves at crossroads, helping us discern the right path forward.

    Obeying God’s guidance might sometimes feel daunting, especially when the instructions are difficult to follow. However, it is often in these moments of hardship that we grow the most. Trusting in God’s plan, even when it’s challenging, allows us to step out boldly and pursue our destiny. When we prioritize obedience over comfort, we open ourselves to experiences we never thought possible.

    No matter how hard the waiting period can be, remember that it is worth it. Each step of faith, each moment of letting go, and each act of obedience helps us refine our character and prepares us to receive the breakthrough we are longing for. God’s timing is perfect, and the blessings that await us are often greater than we can imagine.

    As you navigate your own waiting period, take time to reflect on who you need to become. Embrace the opportunity for growth, stay connected to God’s word, and commit to following His guidance. The breakthrough is coming, and you want to be ready to receive it!

    Let’s walk this journey together, supporting one another as we let go, listen, and leap into all that is ahead. After all, the best is yet to come!

  • Embracing Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace

    Life is often a journey of love and support for the people we care about. We want to see them thrive, make the right choices, and embrace positivity. However, the reality is that sometimes, despite our best intentions, those we love may choose a different path—one that leads to bitterness, deceit, or self-destruction. Watching them spiral can be heart-wrenching, especially when we feel powerless to help.

    You can love them. You can pray for them. You can walk on eggshells, showing them grace and understanding. But if someone is determined to remain hardened, no amount of effort on your part can change them. This is one of the most challenging aspects of caring for someone who refuses to seek improvement or healing.

    The hardest part is often the watching—the slow-motion realization that they are hurting themselves, and in turn, hurting those around them, including you. It’s a painful experience to witness someone you care for making detrimental choices over and over again, and it can leave you feeling anxious, drained, and frustrated.

    But it’s essential to remember: it is not your job to fix them. You are not the Holy Spirit. Only God has the power to soften hearts and lead individuals toward change. Your role is not to force transformation but to love unconditionally and set healthy boundaries.

    So, what can you do in this challenging situation? Here are some steps to consider:

    1. Set Boundaries: Establishing clear boundaries is crucial. Decide what behaviors you will accept and what you will not. This is not about shutting them out but rather protecting yourself from their choices. Boundaries show that while you care, you won’t compromise your well-being.

    2. Release the Weight: Let go of the responsibility to fix someone else’s life. It’s easy to take on the burden of their decisions, but it’s essential to recognize that you cannot control their actions. Letting go of this weight can free you to focus on your own well-being.

    3. Keep Praying, But Stop Striving: Continual prayer for someone you care about can be essential, but stop striving for change through your own efforts. Trust that God is in control and working in their life, even when you can’t see it.

    4. Protect Your Peace: Prioritize your mental and emotional health. Engage in activities that bring you joy and serenity. Surround yourself with positive influences that uplift and encourage you.

    In the end, while you may feel helpless at times, remember that change is ultimately in God’s hands. He can work in ways you may never understand, and He will do so in His perfect timing. Until then, focus on nurturing yourself and cultivating an environment of peace.

    Life can be challenging when those we love seem lost, but by setting boundaries and leaning on faith, we can find clarity and strength in our own journey. Protect your peace, trust God’s timing, and let go of what you cannot control.

  • Keep Your Eyes on Jesus

    In the midst of the tempest,

    when winds howl like lost souls,

    and raindrops drum against the heart,

    don’t look at the storm,

    keep your eyes on Jesus.

    When thunder rolls like a distant war,

    and shadows stretch across the sky,

    let hope anchor your spirit,

    as waves crash and churn,

    keep your eyes on Jesus.

    In the chaos, seek the stillness,

    that whisper beneath the roar,

    a light breaking through the dark,

    a promise held in gentle hands,

    keep your eyes on Jesus.

    For the storm may rage and rage,

    but faith is a lighthouse,

    guiding us through the night,

    reminding us we are not alone,

    keep your eyes on Jesus.

    Let the winds dance around you,

    let the storm sing its wild song,

    for in the heart of the tempest,

    there is peace that surpasses understanding,

    keep your eyes on Jesus.

    Through every trial and tribulation,

    through doubt and fear that sneaks in,

    the horizon will shift, the clouds will part,

    and hope will rise anew,

    keep your eyes on Jesus.

  • Unleashing Your Inner Strength: A Call to Action for Every Woman

    In a world that sometimes demands conformity, it’s time for you to embrace your true power. You weren’t born to blend in; you were forged to break chains. Each of us has a unique journey, and many of us have walked through storms that have tested our very essence. You didn’t survive those battles just to play it safe; instead, you carry the strength of a woman who has emerged from the fire, ready to carry forth the winds of deliverance.

    As you navigate through life, remember: you are the storm that the enemy never saw coming. Your moments of silence aren’t signs of weakness; they are deliberate strategies, moments to gather strength for the next big move. Your next step isn’t merely a comeback; it’s an audacious invasion of purpose and destiny.

    Rising from the Wilderness

    God didn’t allow you to perish in that wilderness experience because He has a plan for you—one that calls you to reign in the Promised Land. You didn’t just endure the valley; you now carry the weight of every tear that has graced your path. Those tears speak of growth, resilience, and undeniable strength.

    Recognize that the mantle on your life may unsettle the mediocre and stir up insecurities in others. It may provoke jealousy from those who hide from their own potential. However, it also has the power to awaken every woman who has been asleep, waiting for the clarion call to her own destiny. Your journey is not just your own; it is a beacon for others navigating their paths.

    You Are Already Crowned

    Understand this: you are not waiting to be chosen; you have already been crowned with a purpose. Validation from others is not what defines you. Instead, you are the voice heaven placed on this earth for a reason. Your experiences, your struggles, and your triumphs all contribute to the unique perspective you bring to the world.

    When you step into your calling, you can inspire others to do the same. Imagine the ripple effect of women embracing their strength, rising up from insecurities, and igniting their passion. This is not just about individual empowerment; it’s about creating a community of strong women who uplift one another.

    Embrace Your Destiny

    So, stand tall and embrace the truth of who you are. You are not merely waiting to be chosen; you have been preordained for greatness. Carry your mantle with pride and let it shine a light on others. As you navigate your journey, remember that you are powerful, you are capable, and you are the storm that changes everything.

    Let your voice be heard and your impact felt—because it’s time to break chains and embrace the incredible force you were always meant to be.

  • Finding Daily Comfort: Strategies for a Fulfilling Life

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    What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?
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    In this fast-paced world, where stress and uncertainty often dominate my life, finding comfort can sometimes feel like a daunting task. However, there are various strategies that I adopt to increase comfort and peace in my daily routines. The most effective methods I’ve discovered is turning to God and His word.

    For me, spirituality serves as a vital source of strength and comfort. Engaging with spiritual texts and prayer can provide a sense of stability and grounding, especially during turbulent times. For me, this journey goes beyond seeking solace on bad days; it’s an everyday commitment. By immersing myself in scripture, I find wisdom and reassurance that guide me through life’s ups and downs.

    Daily Practices for Increased Comfort

    1. Morning Reflections: Each day, I dedicate a few moments to reflect on scripture. This practice not only sets a positive tone for the day but also reminds me of the promises and hope that I can carry throughout my daily life.

    2. Prayer: I make it a point to communicate with God throughout the day. Whether it’s a moment of gratitude, asking for guidance, or simply sharing my thoughts, this connection helps anchor my emotions and offers a sense of peace.

    3. Mindfulness and Meditation: Beyond just reading scripture, I take time to be still and meditate on what I have read, this helps me center my thoughts around God’s promises and not on what I see around me.

    4. Journaling: Documenting my thoughts and experiences in a journal allows me to process emotions and reflect on growth. This practice not only serves as a memory keeper but also helps in recognizing patterns and finding clarity.

    I remind myself that comfort isn’t merely about avoiding discomfort; it’s about building a solid foundation that allows me to navigate life with grace and faith. In times of uncertainty, I am daily remind that God is in control, and I am safely in His Hands.

  • Up Coming Event

    I’m really excited about this upcoming event! I’ll be on one of the panels, so mark your calendars and get ready for some fun and insightful discussions! 🎉

    A huge shoutout to Hailey Morrison for designing this stunning flyer—it’s absolutely beautiful! If you want to check out more of her amazing work, you can find her on Instagram at @haileymorrisonwrites or visit her website at https://haileymbooks.wixsite.com/haileymorrison. Can’t wait to see you all there!✨